Parents for Good Sports - Solutions to Today's Sports Parenting Challenges:
Sports Parenting: Solutions to Today's Youth Sports Challenges (an e-magazine) promotes sports enhancement, enrichment and reform through parent education and involvement. It provides a forum for assessing current sports practices and for discovering approaches to school and youth sports that fit the requirements of the times. It explores possibilities for creating sports programs that benefit athletes, coaches, teams, schools, families and communities.
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So You Want to be a Better Spectator?
“The ability to cooperate is far more important to human welfare than the ability to compete. Success is a journey, not a destination. Winning and losing are temporary, but friendships last forever….” - John Kessel, USA Volleyball
Far more than the winning and losing are the lessons learned through sports.
Socrates said, “ I believe that we cannot live better than in seeking to become still better than we are.” Team sports are unique in their core cooperative nature and their capacity to build character. The ability to cooperate is far more important to human welfare than the ability to compete. Success is a journey, not a destination. Winning and losing are temporary, but friendships last forever, is a Chinese proverb of great truth. Below are five tips for becoming a better spectator.
Tips:
Take a moment to read the Olympic Creed and the Oath of Athletes:
The most important thing in the Olympic Games is not to win but to take part, just as the most important thing in life is not the triumph but the struggle. The essential thing is not to have conquered but to have fought well. In the name of all competitors, I promise that we will take part in these Olympic Games, respecting and abiding by all the rules which govern them in the true spirit of sportsmanship, for the glory of sport and the honor of our teams.
Remember, on every Olympic medal awarded, in Latin, is Citius, Altius, Fortius. – Swifter, Higher, Stronger.
It does NOT translate into “swiftest, highest, strongest.” The idea is to help each player, regardless of age or skill, develop their own selves to be more….as in swifter, higher, and stronger…getting better every day, for this process of learning and self improvement in each child is a journey, not a destination.
Guidelines for Being a Positive Player-Parent adapted from Volleyball USA, Winter 2000: